What's your opinion on this?

We have 2 year old daughter, turning three, and we're planning to have another kid. Do you think mas better po ba na small lang ang age gap ng kids or mas maganda ang bigger age gap? I asked na rin dito kasi, lately we've been asking her if she wants to have a sibling but she's persistent on saying no. Even if we explained what a sibling is, still no...

Cristine Lim-Arellano

26 | Mother, wife, and psychologist. Trying to juggle out the impossible.

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same with my daughter.. shes also turning 3 by january and whenever we ask her if she wants a baby brother or sister, she always say no.. I think my daughter is too young to understand what having a sibling really means and I feel that masyado pang bata ang 3yo para mawala ang attention sa kanya bec of another baby.. aminin man natin or hindi, malelessen ang attention sa panganay kapag may mas batang baby since mas needy ang mga infants.. pag cguro around 4 or 5 na siya I think mas maintindihan na niya.. that's my take but siyempre case to case basis naman yan depende sa family situation and priorities ng bawat family..

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Cristine Lim-Arellano

26 | Mother, wife, and psychologist. Trying to juggle out the impossible.

2y ago

Understand po, also knowing na both working full time rin kami ni hubby. Tas onsite pa po, kaya hindi pa talaga sure kung susundan na. Parehas kasi kami ni hubby na only child so gusto po talaga naming sundan. Pero super get ko yung take mo on this, mommy!

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