Pregnancy reveal turned into tears

Has anyone experienced unkind remarks when announcing your pregnancy? Just revealed mine and was told "you don't look pregnant, you just look fat". Woah. I nodded and laughed it off then, but I later laid in bed and cried. (Might have been a little extra emotional with all the hormones going on.) I accept that weight gain is normal during a pregnancy but still, hearing such unkind and unnecessary comment still hurts and affects to some extent. I guess not everyone simply congratulate the pregnant couple? Sigh.

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Dont need really listen what those people saying , i have 2 miscarriage before while my sil say body weak lah go see doc build up etc. I regretted never argue back that faults not 100% on mine as doc mention . They even celebrated my stepdaughter birthday behind my back when the moment i was having miscarriage. i never ever forget the moment. i cried so badly and argue to them and tell them my thinking ,hopefully they feel remorseful. i currently on my 3rd pregnancy of 18 week , we jus disclose on the 16th week yet they still have the cheek to ask what took us so long to tell? I replied that not everyone happy is real. Do remember, baby in our tummy will feel what we are doing . We have the rights to happy with our child. Dont waste tears on those ppl .stay happy mummy 😘

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