Pregnancy reveal turned into tears

Don't laugh it off next time. Right then n there let them know that that was a poor joke n you don't enjoy such pathetic comments. So next time they will be careful before they open their mouth to comment. You don't need to feel bad or guilty for standing up for yourself. Either they will realize their mistake and correct it or they will get offended and not talk to you. Isn't both good for you 😀 Honestly if they can't be happy for you for one of your best news in your life, they don't deserve to be called your friends. Even if it's family, please stand up for yourself always. I regret faking my feelings in the past when I have been badly hurt by others' comments. I was super skinny while in school and then during university time I put on lots of weight. All thanks to my hormonal imbalance. People used to troll me while I was skinny. They trolled me when I was heavy. Some comments were super insensitive like "Are you adopted cos you are so skinny that it seems your family don't give you any food" When I was heavy comments went like "where does your family buy groceries from; or does your family own grocery shop; if going for lunch with you let us eat first else we won't have anything;" so on n on n on. I was never a big eater. And I was only 65kg for my 166cm height. But their comments made me feel like I am the heaviest person ever. I was staying away from my family, in a different country with different culture and I was starving myself due to some idiots 😂 Now that I think of it I feel angry about myself for bearing it all and not giving back n earful