1st birthday celebration

Going 7 months na si LO Plano ko na maghotel na lang kaming pamilya (family of 3). Kaso nagtatalo padin isip ko kung maghanda na lang sa bahay like kainan, no party, pure kainan lang, tipong focus lang sila sa Birthday celebrant which is my baby. ano kaya mas okay? iniisip ko din yung jollibee celebration eh kaso limited lang.