Care after bb is born

Hello everyone. I have a situation here with regards to who to help take care of my bb after she's born. 1. In law is not willing to take care of bb despite wfh 2. My parents are indecisive also, but they're self-employed 3. Helpers are expensive (or is anyone able to advise the helper's upfront payment and mthly salary?) 4. Nannies are now priced avgly $800 a month too, so it's pricey 5. Infant cares (anyone knows the fees in local preschs?) Thanks!