Back to work from Stillbirth

Hi everyone, babalik na kasi ako sa office sa monday, from my 60 days mat leave (due to stillbirth), ask ko lang po how did you handle yung pagbalik sa work or sa office? I'm kinda afraid and anxious pa na humarap sa tao after all that happened. Natatakot ako sa mga pwede nilang itanong or what (alam ko naman yung iba out of concern, pero syempre di mawawala yung makiki-tsismis lang), and kung ano dapat kong isagot, because to be honest I don't want to explain or ikwento pa yung nangyari, it was very traumatic and sobrang sakit, ayoko na magexplain pa sa iba 🥺 Paano nyo po yung hinarap yung mga tao and mga tanong nila na hindi po nakakabastos or what? Please help 🥺

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I'm so sorry for your loss, mommy. Okay lang na hindi magkuwento, and tell them so if they ask. It's okay to set those boundaries with coworkers. They'll understand din naman if they're decent human beings. If ma-offend sila sa yo, grabe lang na sila pa ang ma-offend. Dedma na lang. Also, on another note, there's a healing mode on this app that allows you turn off the pregnancy tracker para hindi po kayo ma-trigger.

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