Does your maid eat together when you go to the restaurant?

Yes of course if i have one. Maid - wat a word. I would call her our helper instead. Our helper is employed to help us and therefore we should treat her well. Eating with ua on the same table doesn't mean anything. It's just a meal even if it's at home. There ia no need to be more superior over here. So long as you know when and where to draw a line so that she doesn't climb over your head, it should be alright.