My daughter has bedn recently quite sick and I waited for 4 days until she started antibiotics. Now I think she could have had them earlier and avoid sleepless nights and getting exhausted. What do you think? Is the fear of antibiotics overexaggerated? thanks

normally i will give the med whenever lo is sick. one reason is last time she had fever, i tried not to give. it got worse until the 4-5th day , i brought to hosiptal, she was down with bronchitis , then ear infection , then fungals infection . all this caused by me bcos i tot that avioding med is better. in the end she suffered alot . i seen them putting tubes into her nose n mouth, she was screaming and so tramatic . in the end , 3 weeks of non stop medicattion . the med box is so packed and the counts of med i gave her even scares me. similarly happen to my son too . in the end brought to hospital , down with rota virus even when he has his vaccines already . his white blood cells count was 4 times more than an adult and was in dangerous stage. hospitalised for 5 days with antibitoics admisitered into his body continuously. he told us it hurts.. now whenever they r sick, i give med.