Working mom guilt

Assalamualaikum semua. Ada tak sini moms yg kerja jauh dari anak? Tinggalkan pada umur brp? Anak tinggal dgn siapa? Mcm mana kita nak supaya anak rasa tidak terabai atau kecil hati? My baby baru sebulan lebih. I just nak tanya awal2 🥹 Terima kasih respond.

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Am not experiencing as working mom n the baby is not young as yours. Tp sy experienced bawa anak buah balik Malaysia at the age of 7 months plus. Of course the kid doesn't know anything. He @ she doesn't know yg die berjauhan dgn mak die. Tp mak die lah rasa lonely, rasa rindu kt anak die... Tp cause of some of circumstances, terpaksa berjauhan dgn anak. My nephew pun dah besar, 7 years old now. When we bring him back here he just little small boy doesn't know anything. Now, he growing up with his 2 auntys 2 uncles, atok dan nenek. Die tahu die ada mummy, tp just like that sahaja lah, mummy mummy mummy bila video call. Tp bonding antara mom n son x ada. Physical attachment, emotional attachment semua x ada. Mommy die nk bawa balik ambik die semula pun die x nk sbb die kata nk jaga atok nenek die. Thats my experience with my nephew. Kalau untuk awak, sy pun x sure jarak nk jauh tu mcm mana. Kalau still within Malaysia, balik2 lah jenguk anak. Jgn teruskan tinggal mcm tu sahaja. Adakan physical attachment dgn anak, baru emotional anak n mother ada attachment. It will help them to grow better.

Baca lagi
2y ago

Alamak jauh juga tu... Sabah- KL bukan boleh travel guna daratan.. Byk guna kos pula tu. X apa awak. Kalau awak keberatan, timbang2 lah semula keputusan awak. Setiap keputusan awak buat ada baik ada buruk. Dan kita x akan dpt kesemuanye sekaligus. Sometime ada benda kita kena sacrifice for own good.