anybody here has 1 child and is contented? Do they really need siblings?i feel so tired managing work child and housework, cant imagine if i have 2 i wld really hv zero me time.it's not gd for our marriage either. Is there really a need to "suffer so much just to give yr child a sibling"? also i dont have parents staying with me so it is already tough w one

Having the only child or more is up to you. Personally for me I wanted only 1. Afterwhich we were in between thinking if we should have another one. With that said, we decided to leave it to mother's nature. And yup we got a second child now. There pros a d cons la. But if you have 2kids and the age gap is closer, the '' suffering" will be over faster. My two cents. Do I make sense? Haha..