once while i was pregnant w my first one. i was talking to my husband abt our future w a baby. i was overthinking....... second one after the my best friend's accident death. on the day she died i cried like crazy. but the next day i woke up it just really hit me really hard. some days are fine, some days are hard but we just need to make conscious effort to just take the time to breathe and count our blessings.