After giving birth, i realise tat i lose my patience easily & became short tempered. Any advise on how to control anger? Consulted hubby. Hubby says when i feel like flaring up, try ur best to control urself. Hmm..

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Me too. After giving birth my temper got worst, I flare at my parents who keep telling me what to do and how to take care of my baby. I consulted my husband he also say the same thing to me. Maybe is because all my patience used up by my LO. So I flare at whoever step on my tail. Which is not a good thing la. But sometimes just mentally tired. So I guess flare up is better than holding back.

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8y ago

Ya. Same situation as urs. Flare up at my parents too. Agree tat patience is used up by LO. Mentally tired too. Looks like we hv to jiayou n get a hold of ourselves!😊

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Same here. I guess all moms go through similar experiences. Try to use the traffic light theory. Red stop, amber think, green go. I learned this during psychotherapy.

I think is just u 2 have enough listening on how u Should take care of ur baby? Cause u as a Mother won't like it if somemore keep saying ur parenting style is no gd

8y ago

Ya.. Tatz y.. Haiz..

Welcome Aeryn!