Actually why can't mother in laws just STFU and mind their own business. Everything they also want to put their nose in. They have daughters too and they never thought that 1 day their daughters could be treated the same way as they treat other people's daughter. And yes, their daughter in law is someone else's flesh and blood. What gives them the right to "bully"?

My mil comments that I've gained weight, always updating my husband that so-and-so (usually neighbours) have had children already trying to rush us for children, wants to dress my future LO in matching mama and baby outfit, keep trying to tell me about ways to create a safe environment for conception (isn't a little tmi?), says that my future home will be very messy because I anyhow spend money (we still live with my in-laws, waiting for our bto) fact is they used what I bought but didnt show gratitude when the stuff i bought made their life easier, only commented that I keep spending money zzzzz.