Actually why can't mother in laws just STFU and mind their own business. Everything they also want to put their nose in. They have daughters too and they never thought that 1 day their daughters could be treated the same way as they treat other people's daughter. And yes, their daughter in law is someone else's flesh and blood. What gives them the right to "bully"?

Mil is a pain in the a**. They want their dil to do as they say. they got nothing to do but to spoil your relationship with your hubby and backstabbing you indirectly making her look like she is just doing it out of concern. Come on, we are women we know what other women is thinking and doing. Which women likes to shared their man? Especially their own son, they will prove to their son they are always right. I have a son I know how it feel but mother have to let go and let their son live their own life. Best revenge for irritating and drama mil is getting your hubby stand by you. she cannot take it one. :)