Pregnant need advice

#1stimemom Hello, ask ko lang po if okay na mabuntis ang 23 years old? Hindi po ba masyadong bata pa? Buntis po kase ako at hindi ko pa nasasabi sa family ko. Natatakot po ako. Almost 3 years na din po ako graduate ng college. Need advice po, natatakot ako baka madisappoint parents at mga kapatid ko sa akin. 😭

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Hi! Just wanna share my story while my baby is asleep shh! 💤 21 yrs old nabuntis, now I am 22 yrs old with a 2 months old baby. My story is unbelievable but yes nalihim ko pagbubuntis ko for almost a year. At the age of 18 hndi nako umaasa sa Papa ko, single father siya with a partner now, wala na mother ko because of cancer 9 yrs ago and panganay ako sa tatlo kong kapatid. Nagwork nako at 18 and super independent and mature enough dahil namulat agad sa problems and reality ng buhay. Nagwowork ako for myself and pag may extra nagbbgay sa mga kapatid and bills to pay. My siblings and I were living at my grandma's house, but when nag-away kami ng lola ko tumira ako sa house ng boyfriend ko (5 yrs in a rel and legal both sides) while working, then boom! nabuntis after a few months living in their house. At first I want to abort the baby because I'm too young and not yet ready sa mga masasabi ng relatives ko specially at my Father's side dahil super conservative sila. Then after I gave birth, I decided to tell to my siblings and of course sa Papa ko. And super expect ko magagalit siya pero HINDI, since pandemic and lockdown we just talk thru videocall and when I saw Papa I already cried and said sorry. Then he replied "nanjan na yan eh, wala na tayo magagawa jan. Magdasal ka na sana gabayan ka ni mama mo at sabihin na sa pamilya natin para di mahirapan lumaki ung bata." And then when he saw my baby, para siyang iiyak na naka-smile. Then my heart feels like matutunaw sa sobrang happy. And now onti onti ko nang sinasabi and nagkaron nako ng lakas ng loob because of my Papa and with the help of other relatives na magsabi sa iba. And that's it. Just give faith and patience to yourself and I believe to the saying that "Everything will be okay!" I hope it helps to lessen your kaba, and ofc don't stress yourself. It may affect ur baby. Just think Happy thoughts! Godbless you and ur baby!

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