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Peekapoo diaper

Anyone keen in peekapoo diaper group buy? $26.50 per pack. Courier at $4/Islandwide. Can mix and match tape or pants. #1stimemom #firstbaby #pregnancy #diapers #PKP #pkpbaby #christmas #mom #dad

Peekapoo diaper

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suggestions to you is just buy 1 or 2 nb they outgrown very fast

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Singapore Dad-to-be advise

In Singapore, as we are approaching delivery date, as a Dad-to-be, I am looking for information related to how to be prepared for delivery. Kindly help to clarify the following : 1. Since the delivery can take place at part of the day , should I go for rental car along with private driver so that when the delivery pain comes can go to hospital directly without waiting for grab booking ? 2. Which is the recommended insurance for babies ? 3. Which is better service - nanny service or domestic helper ? Anything else I am missing, kindly advise Thanks, Ram #firstbaby #pregnancy #dad-to-be #advicepls

1. Not needed, don’t wait till last minute where the contractions are unbearable then you go hospital. Once it starts getting frequent and stronger, call up your hospital and prepare to go. Usually still have will time to eat a meal and shower 😉 2. I took AXA for both mummy and baby. 3. Depending if you’re looking at long term or short term and whether you need help with housework. Nanny mainly focuses on baby (or mummy too if you’re engaging confinement nanny from centres). Nanny also has no contract and don’t need a room for long term. Helper mainly focuses on either baby or house chores, but the housework is within her job scope when baby is asleep or when there is someone there to take care. Domestic helper tied down to contract, needs a permanent sleeping room for 2 years (space is to be considered here, most helper will want a room on her own.), you have to pay for levy, insurance, loan etc etc. My advise is, if there is someone who is gonna take care of baby after all the PL or ML ends, then get a confinement nanny will do. If you think you can handle baby and housework, then get confinement food. Pros without engaging nanny is that when nanny leaves, you won’t feel lost since you’ve been doing the same thing for the past one month. Also some baby experienced bottle and nipple confusion after nanny leaves, leaving parents helpless with a baby that doesn’t want the boob or the bottle.

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Wife constantly wants to divorce me

For the other dads out there, do you guys face your wife constantly asking to divorce, especially in the 3rd trimester? It feels hard knowing that you try your best to give it your all only for her to say things like “its not enough”, “why am I not your priority?”, “you are not the same person I knew”. I know that they are going through some hormonal changes but it still hurts when your wife says things like these. Its not like anything major happened (to me at least). How do you guys cope with this feeling? #advicepls #pleasehelp #firstbaby #dad

You’ve probably seen a lot of articles where woman mentioned they felt “alone” through out pregnancy even tho their husband is physically with them. I once felt the same too, especially when my husband prioritised his mobile games more than me. With the crazy weight gain, going from XS - L it certainly does not help the situation as we constantly feel demoralized and starts thinking all the “what ifs”. “What if my husband leave me for another girl, what if he don’t love me as much because I’m so big sized now, what if when baby is out and I have to do everything myself.” Most of the time we when we feel that everything is just so wrong or when we start to feel depressed (especially comparing our lives to other preggos), we just say things that we don’t mean to. I personally wanted to divorce my husband all the time too. What I can suggest is bring her out for dates, let her feel those dating days again and assure her that nothing is gonna change just because you’re having a baby. Find something that you both love to do before pregnancy, keep her occupied. If you don’t mind the tiredness, watch those fb videos on “other’s husband” to see if it helps. (This is also a reason why woman overthink cause they watch too many fb unrealistic husband videos lol.) I’m certain your wife still loves you a lot. Your mental health is equally important so while having to take care of your wife’s wellbeing, don’t forget about yours too. Take a breather, take a break if you need to.

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