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Help me need advice need hugs.

#advicepls #breasfeeding #stressedout I am a fulltime mom of 12 yr old boy, 3 yr old boy and a 5monht old baby girl. Since I gave birth last june 2021 it was really hard financially. My husband and I had to barrow money because his work was stop due to pandemic he needs to wait for monhts before a duty by the way he is a dishwasher @ romantic baboy. We lived in my parents my tatay used to be mad because i got pregnant hubby has no stable job our savings are gone we have to pay for our credits. Since I gave birth we always have a topic at home about us. I am really stress physically emotionally mentally hearings those painful words. I know its our faults but i consider it as a blessing. I've always ask God whats my purpose in life ever since I became a mom i always try to do my best for my kids. They can't understand its pandemic. We are both fully Vaccinated my son as well. I've been looking for jobs for hubby. By the way all my kids are pure breastfeed thats why I am happy because their immune system is strong. Sometimes i find my self crying then my eldest son will say don't think too much. Since pandemic my eldest son used to love plants then he start buying propregate some plants then sometimes he sells them then gives to me the money to buy foods diapers. Small things makes me happy. By the way my parents are 90 year old. We moved to my brothers house. I have to because of my condition but up to now i am still stress knowing what will happen to us.. All my wish this dec 12 my birthday is to have more faith and hope for next year to come. Atleast i am able to shout out my feelings here. Hay 😢

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Please enlighten me 😭🙏

We live in my parents house eversince everything was nice before pandemic. But everything change my 90 year old father got positive for covid19 since he has uti and need an operation because of his prostate. Protocol sa hospital is negative result before admitted. We waited for 1 monht I take care of my father at home since I was the bunso my ate is pwd the other one is taking care of our nanay which is also 90 year old. By the way I already had 2 boys. 12 year old and 3 year old. My husband who has no work because of pandemic we decided that he will be the one to be with my father at the hospital because we all knlw it's risky. By the way all of us got swab by our brgy. All of us negative. So he got operated after 3 weeks they got home. After a week my father slip lost his balance broken hips need to be operated again because of that my husband again needs to be with him. No choice no work he's the only guy at home. I am the one who works for papers billing out ect. Buy medicine bringing clothes foods ect. Im so tired stress. Back and fort from national kidney hospital to philippine orthopedic hospital. Thank GOd I was still okey. But when December came I found out I was pregnant with baby number 3. Shock because I've been busy the whole time I was scared but happy ofcourse. That's when my father started to be angry because i am pregnant pandemic no work ect. He always used may parinig as in everyday. I did my work as i take care of him evesince and also my husband and this is what i got in return Im so stressed sometimes I cry at the cr. We have no choice because its pandemic we used our small savings just to prove that we can handle our situation. I always pray and ask why do I have to experience this. I give birth last june 16 2021 everything was well I have a healthy baby girl. And Im so happy. Until now his like that we are planning to move to my brother's house. I'm just waiting my baby to be vaccine this end of August. Im so tired i just think of my kids my family i ❤️them. Thanks to my husband who is open minded and has long patience I am lucky with my in laws they are so positive in life. 😇🙏

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Enlighten me please I need your advice.

#pregnancy I am 25 weeks after my congenital scan everything was normal naman. I am having a baby girl but she is in breech position sabi ni obgyne kailangan umikot ni baby para hndi ako ma cesarean. Before wala naman ako problem sa 2 boys ko ngaun lang kaya mejo kabado ako. Ano kaya pwede ko gawin para umikot si baby girl. 😢

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Mommy struggles.

#advicepls #pregnancy Im on my 16 weeks and 4 days of pregnancy ok lang ba magpa breastfeed pa din ako sa 2 year old baby boy ko tuwing matutulog lang nman siya nag dedede. Breastfeed kc siya since birth. Fulltime mommy po ako.

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