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Baby super hard to put to bed

Is it normal to get impatient with our babies? My baby has suddenly become so so tough to put to bed recently… like keep crying everytime i try to put down for nap, just now bedtime cry more than 1 hour and I just feel so frustrated ): & then after that my toddler comes home and doesnt listen and it gets me even more angry… just whole day super frustrating. In the middle of the night after feed also takes 1 hour to coax back to sleep suddenly..

Hi mama! I hear you 😭😭😭 my kid struggles so much with sleep, and is otherwise a super calm baby who thrives in everything else 🤣 Just dropping everything I tried so you might find something new!! 1. Check if wake window is too long and baby is overtired. Overtired baby is fussy at sleep 2. Check if wake window is too short and sleep pressure is insufficient. Undertired baby also fussy at sleep 3. Use white noise machine, same sound every time 4. Dim lights only for night feeds 5. No talking / interacting w baby when putting them to sleep 6. Have a consistent routine (mine's shower > milk > book > sleep). 7. Try different movements. My baby LOVES lunges 😭 8. Check whether they are in a leap! Usually 3, 6, 9, 12, 18, 24 months - they gain significant skills so their brains are just so overwhelmed. Should just last a couple of weeks :) 9. Check whether sleep regression, usually 4, 9, 15-24 months if I'm not wrong 10. Check whether need to burp - especially if baby also keeps rubbing their head against you 11. They might just prefer contact naps right now (but will outgrow it 🥹) 12. Check whether teething - might just be experiencing a lot of pain so want comfort 13. Depending on age, might be separation anxiety. Play a lot more peekaboo and give reassurance regularly Everytime my baby goes through such a phase I really regret not doing sleep training (though I don't believe in it hahaha) but I just remember that it will pass 🙏 and it always does!!!

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Relationship with Parents-in-law

Hi, any mommies here have issues with your parents in law being too close to your baby? my baby is the first grandkid in the family and my parents in law dote on her a lot, esp my mil since she always wanted a daughter. However for me, not sure if it is post partum depression, i fear seeing my child being close to them esp my mil, every time she takes care of her i feel frustrated and uneasy, as if she is taking her away from me and treating her like her own daughter. it even makes me hate my mil. and i fear that one day she will prefer my mil over me… which happened a few times recently. how do you all handle such situations? am i over sensitive? #Needadvice

Just nicely take her away. Just say you wanna spend more time with her. This, is your moment. Your time with your newborn. You can never get this precious moment back. This is the time to bond. Your mil can get her time later on.

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Any gynae to recommend for KKH private?

Looking for KKH private and what is the procedure? I’m in week 4 now. Thanks!

hi, I'm at week 22, looking to switch to KKH private. Any female gynae recommendations for labour and delivery at KKH private?

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Hi anyone knows any girl for 19m sunat clinics in SG?

Hi, I hv 2 girls (3m & 19m). I'm thinking of letting them sunat together. We didn't have the chance to do it earlier for my older daughter as I had a lot of stuff to settle and also not enough money. Now, I alrd have the money and time but not sure if clinics could accept more than 1yr. Anyone managed to get sunat for 1++yr? Pls do let me know. I wanna get it done asap.#Needadvice #askmommies

it's only sunnah for males not females.

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