saying bad things to your baby

I will definitely not accept it. She may or may not be joking but this can have detrimental effects on the young kid's mental well being and he may feel unwanted. I will just say nobody is chasing him out, he's always our precious one and home is always for him. Individually i will let mil know this is unacceptable no matter what, even if last time this was the norm. Move out or cut contact if necessary.