What is the first gift you gave to your mother in law?

After my marriage, I gifted a swarovski Ganapathi to my MIL. There was some problem during our marriage, so she took out that anger on it, and carelessly kept that away on the floor. I felt really bad, and later, too, I got a nice Kashmiri embroidered suit for her, which again she took and left it unattended. This time, I took the suit and kept it back and decided never to gift anything. I think gifts are given from the emotion that runs through one's heart, and if someone disrespects that feeling, then that person isn't worthy of that piece of your love, and that be anyone.