What are the events on the timeline of my children’s lives that have the most impact?

Looking back into my childhood, I wish I had a better time socializing in school (primary and secondary) and that my parents would believe me when I told them I was being bullied and self conscious of everything. As a result, I would say I grew up to be a person who takes a long time to warm up to people and tend to be wary about others instead of seeing the good in them first. As such, I make it my personal mission to always listen to my children one day, if needed, and to never dismiss them no matter how minor the problem may be.