Juat Had A Miscarriage. What Should I Do?

Question

Hi all, today is supposed to be my 9th week. I went to the gynae for a scan and found out that the heartbeat of my baby had stopped. My husband and I were devastated. Until now, we cannot believe it happened. The gyane suggested that i can go for an operation to remove my baby, or i can allow my body to let my baby out naturally which might take up to 2 months. He also suggested a third way, which is through medication but he said it might not be very effective. May i know which way should i follow? Is there any food or anything that i can do to prepare for next pregnancy? I am at a loss.

Joanne · Accepted Answer

So sorry for your loss. I had a silent miscarriage last Dec and opted for the D&C procedure as I do not wish to wait for weeks not knowing when it will be discharged out. I did the procedure 2 weeks after the news, so you can take some time to decide on the options available. After which, I did 2 weeks confinement to nurse my body back to health. Don’t worry about what to prepare for the next pregnancy. I didn’t prepare for it and 3 months later I am pregnant again. Your gynae will let you know when it’s good to try again. All the best, be strong! 💪🏻

Shirlene · Answer

i’m so sorry for your loss and i hope you are feeling better now. I opted for operation when i miscarriage and ordered 2 weeks confinement food, i also diligently visited TCM thereafter to prepare for my next pregnancy.