I wouldn't exactly say that you're selfish, kasi kung hindi ka na masaya, it's understandable naman. But at the same time, I think that's just running away rather than addressing the issue and trying to solve it. Being in a healthy relationship takes constant effort and hard work. Kahit pa makipaghiwalay ka ngayon and find someone who has the same love language as you, kung hindi ka marunong makipag-communicate nang tama at mag-effort to make it work, then ang ending ay hahanap ka lng ulit ng iba who'll have that "romantic spark" until it lasts. I know lovemaking is important pero iniisip ko kasi, paano kapag nagkasakit ako and unable to make love anymore (paralyzed, etc.), ok lng ba na iwan na ko ng asawa ko? Personally, I'd stay and take care of him, kahit wala na sya naibibigay at nagagawa para sa akin, kasi mahal ko sya.
It's one thing that you're not getting the kind of love that you need, but how about you? Are you able to give him the kind of love that he needs? Nag-adjust ka ba towards his love language, at sya lang talaga yung hindi?
Ultimately, it's your decision. Hindi naman namin alam ang buong istorya, and we have no right to judge. Gusto ko lang na i-emphasize that staying in love takes constant effort. If you don't believe that this person is worth the hard work, then that's that. I just hope that if you do decide to break up, your child won't be deprived of a good father ☺️
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