i agree sa other comment. kelangan open kayo both parties to discuss and well discussed din ito sa families both sides. depende pa din kasi sa beliefs nyu. in our case my brother died 1wk before our wedding, kinausap ko ung family ko and diniscuss namin ng husband ko and we decided to push the wedding, nag-agree naman din ung buong family namin.
depende sa beliefs nyo both sides