Hi 🍵ta. Wanna ask for your opinion lang 😅
I have a cousin na sobrang close ko before and ’chosen’ na talagang maging maid of honor ko (sya lang din invited sa mga pinsan kong babae since balak namin ni partner na 50 pax lang and yung talagang part lang ng relationship namin).
Kaso ito na ngaaaaa…. We grew apart. Okay naman kami pero we part ways na talaga siguro dahil na rin sa mga naging desisyon sa buhay at mga nangyari. Medyo nagkagulo rin talaga and naging civil na lang. At some point, hindi nya rin ganon kagusto yung bf ko for some reasons. 😆 Ngayon, my bf told me na he thinks my cousin is not worthy na to be my maid of honor. Pwedeng abay na lang daw pero not maid of honor kasi;
Una, she doesn’t support our relationship. She’s okay with it but for some reasons kasi naging against din sya to the point na medyo nagkaroon ng conflict. 😅
Second, hindi rin sya naging part ng relationship namin ng bf ko all throughout.
Ngayon, hindi ako makapag decision kasi nasabi ko na sa kanya and sa family na sya talaga maid of honor ko even after the conflict for her to know na wala namang nagbago pero ayun nga, medyo hindi okay kay bf. Para sa kanya hindi na mutual yung respect. He thinks sobrang pain din yung na-inflict sakin ni cousin thou I’m aware naman na nag inflict din ako ng pain unconsciously because feeling nya naiwan ko sya sa ere. And ayun nga, she’s not deserving because of all the conflicts happened before. And, kasal din daw nya yun which I totally understand.
What are your thoughts??
P.s: About sa partner ko, all good sya. Hindi lang talaga nagto-tolerate ng attitude since siguro kasi matanda na rin and against sya sa toxic family culture. Ayaw nya rin ginagawa akong doormat. Lol. Almost 10 years yung gap namin. 😆#advicepls