Masama ba kung hindi mo gagamitin ang apelyido ng asawa mo?

it's legally okay(in the eyes of the law women have the right to adopt husband's last name or not), pero mas nakasanayan na kasi na apilyido husband ang gagamitin,it will be considered against cultural beliefs.(i know this since i have thought about this coz the only man in our family is most likely not gonna marry🤦🏻‍♀️. my father's last name last with my brothers generation in our place (mother's birth place)and we have no more connection with father's first family since my father passed away... i honestly hope a child would knock and tell us he/she is my brother's child😅. society is still not prepared for this openness