sex life after manganak

Ako po 🙋‍♀️eversince pregnancy until now almost 3yrs post-partum (tapos buntis na ulit) 😭 Hindi pa talaga bumabalik dating libido ko. Ang hirap talagang tumanggi, tapos matampuhin pa at mainit ang ulo kapag matagal nang hindi napagbibigyan. I tried to be as open to my husband as much as I can, and explain my side-- I very much love him still pero for some reason, most probably due to hormones, ay wala sa mood. I prefer hugs and kisses and cuddles, etc. Anyways, regardless, men will be men. 2 talaga ang "utak" nila 😅 So these are the things I/ we do to survive: 1. I managed to set a schedule--every weekends only para at least mentally prepared ako. 2. LUBRICANT is a lifesaver. I may not be in the mood and not actually enjoy it, but at least it won't be painful 👍 *sometimes I even end up enjoying it. 3. I realized there's more probability na ma-enjoy ko sya early in the morning when relaxed na ang utak ko, compared sa gabi na usually stressed na ako at irritable. Personally, sobrang missed ko na rin na ako yung nag-aaya, pero for now, no choice eh 🤷‍♀️😭

Haha ilang beses na nmin pinag aawayan to, sumasama ang loob pag hindi napagbibigyan. sabi ko nlng twing madaling araw niya nlng ako ayain kasi un ung time na nakapag pahinga nako at nasa mood ako