college student and pregnancy (long post)

Sino po dito ang nagaaral pa sa kolehiyo at nabuntis? I'm a working student pero nag resign ako dahil fastfood chain ang field ng work. Nakakapraning dahil minsan nagkakasabay ang check up at examination day. At isa pa, nahihiya na ako humingi ng baon, tuition and misc. fees sa magulang ko. Although support parin nila pagaaral ko at 24 yrs old na ako. Pero bago niyo ko husgahan sa pagbubuntis ko while being a student.. Hirap kami dati paaralin ng father ko kasi 2 kaming college (ako=panganay, at kapatid ko=2nd). So nag decide ako mag stop at mag work at umabot ng 4years.... kapatid ko nagtuloy tuloy at graduate na last year. Kaya ngayon ako naman ang nag patuloy sa pag aaral. Nagresign ako sa trabaho ko kahit regular na kasi gusto ko talaga makapagtapos. And Nakita ko na may offer ang AMA Computer College ng 30k tuition for 1year at sakto ang class sched dahil 3 or 2 times a week ka lang papasok. So grinab ko yun at nag working student ako which is sa fastfood chain na(jollibee). Pero nitong october nabuntis ako. Kaya pala sobrang pagod at wala akong gana sa work man or sa school. Btw (7yrs na pala kami ng boyfriend ko®ular na rin siya sa work nya). Kaso ang problema ko ngayon since nagresign ako sa work ko at nagpatuloy parin sa pag aaral ang kinakaistressan ko naman ay yung gastusin. Nahihiya na akong tumira dito sa bahay ng parents ko. Dahik nasanay kasi ako na may naiaabot na pera kahit konti sa knila kapalit ng pagaaral ko at pero ngayon wala na talaga at nabuntis pa ako. Yung boyfriend ko naman nahihiya rin akong manghingi dahil since naging kami, palaging hati kami sa bills tuwing naggagala or date. Dahil no choice ako at walang income. Napapraning na ako sa bahay. Pakiramdam ko wala akong silbi. Dahil nga konting araw lang naman at oras ang nilalagi ko sa school madalas sa bahay ako tiga-lahat(saing,luto,linis,laba,at paligo ng mga aso) Gustong gusto ko na magkaroon ng sariling incomeeeee... Ang hirap maging studyante at buntis. Minsan gusto na lang din ulit huminto sa pagaaral... Kayo ganito din ba kayo? Student and preggy?

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College din ako nung nabuntis, same din po sanay ako ng may income kahit nag aaral.. Nung nabuntis ako, di ako nakapagtuloy kasi bawal sa educ ang buntis, nung makapag give birth nako nagtuloy ulit ako sa pag aaral.. Pero kaibahan natin sis ay di ko na need humingi ng pera sa boyfriend kahit nung buntis ako, kasi alam nyang dapat talaga sya magbigay kasi responsibility na nyang gastusan ang check ups, gamot at mga gamit na need namin ni baby.. Nung nag aral na ako, sya na nagpa aral sakin. Kargo nya na ako sa lahat, at kinuha na din nya ako samin.. Kaya wala kami naging prob financially, at di din ako nahiya sa parents ko dahil di nagkulang ang bf ko sa pag support sakin mula buntis gang ngayong pangalawang anak na namin.. Btw, graduate na din po ako. Preggy sa pangalawa.. 2015 po nung nabuntis nya ako, 2018 ako graduate, nagpakasal at nakapasa sa board. Wag sumuko sis, wag din mahiya humingi sa bf, dahil responsibility na nya kayo ng baby mo.. Wag isuko ang pag aaral, dahil para sa inyo din yan ng pamilyang bubuuin mo. God bless you sis ❤️

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3y ago

Bakit Po bawal educ din ako pero saamin pwede namn . Po Lalo na pag graduating sayang namn yon alam ko pwede wlang bawal discrimination un

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Same here po. Student and umemployed. I recently gave birth din so nakatigil ako sa school. I feel so useless and pabigat talaga. Hiyang hiya na ako sa lahat. From my family to my boyfriend's family and to my boyfriend mismo. 1 year lang din kami ng boyfriend ko pero I got pregnant agad. I'm the eldest child and hindi kami mayaman. Ako lang talaga inaasahan ng family ko na iahon sila sa kahirapan pero I disappointed them so bad. Di ko alam paano gagawin ko :( I know things will get better naman pero right now, I feel hopeless :(

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5y ago

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yes po ganyan din ako ngayun sobrang nakakastress po dagdag pa yung partner mo na walang pakialam sayo. wala kang mahingan ng tulong . nahihiya din kasi ako sa parents ko. Kaya tiis nlang tayo.. 😊 kaya natin to momsh😇❤️

Pero cgurado ako nanhnd ka papabayaan ng parents mo, galit man sila ngayun, susuportahan ka pa din nila sa gusto mo, kung mkapagtapos pgaaralin kp din, pamilya mo naman sila

same situation mamsh. ang hirap ng ganto.. Nag aaral din ako ngayon Educ 2nd year na this school year.