Anyone who had just 1 child/ don’t plan to have 2nd and didn’t regret it?

Seems like everyone is saying should have 2nd child.. I love my LO but I can’t seem to imagine going through the whole pregnancy and giving birth and tough infant age again.. is it really bad to not have more than 1??

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I have a few friends who only have one child, none of them regrets. I myself have one baby and have been battling whether or not to have another, but I can’t bear the thought of my young baby sharing me with another child. And I fear the fourth trimester, don’t wanna live it again.

7mo ago

Me too :(

not really. you can spend more time on your LO. I was in your situation before but I feel that having 1 allows me to have more time with him and focus on him well. He told me he's not lonely without more siblings.