Hi, pls don't judge:( I just hv a few qns n wanted to share my situation. Sorry for long post.

SAHM here; son turning 2 in Jan, 10m girl, currently pregnant. Hubby works part time for now but plans to start full time in Jan. We don't hv a hse yet. I stay with my mom, younger bro & my 2 kids in a 3rm while he stays with his uncle. He would come over weekly n sometimes sleep at my mom's. We plan to apply rental aft him working abt 3-4months, we both don't hv enuf cpf.We want to be independent and hv own hse as our kids are growing n needed space. I plan to put my son in sch n eventually my girl. So that I can focus on my baby n recover. I want to start working part time aft recovery. If possible I wanted to put my kids in sch quickly, so I can work part time while pregnant n go appt. If not I will work aft recovery from birth. Im scared part time jobs don't take pregnant lady. My mom's hse is at north. Her salary is less than 2.5k n bro is still a student. I'm planning to apply a sch at the north area. I have heard of a friend's friend had to pay abt 300-400 for sch fees(husb working, wife SAHM) I'm worried abt sch fees n any other fees like uniform. >Am I still able to get infantcare subsidies even if my husband lives in different hse? >If I apply rental can I get ard north area or I hv to trf my kid to another center? >Any advice/things to note abt infantcare n rental? >Any part time job that is flexible as I need send n fetch my kids? #adviceappreciated