It's always so easy for an outsider like me to say, yes confront him, talk to him. But easier said than done, right? I think what you'll need is courage - courage not only to confront him, but courage to face the outcome of confronting him. You might have a heated argument, or you might have an open discussion. He might leave, or he might realize his foolishness and be more supportive. At the end of the day, what you need now is love and support. Being pregnant and having a 2 year old, you need to be emotionally, mentally and physically healthy. Stress and anxiety can affect not only you, but your toddler and growing baby as well. You and the kids need to be living in a positive and loving envieonment. So think about your options now, prepare for whatever outcome will be when you confront your husband. Because you should confront him. You can't just ignore it. He has to know that you know what he's thinking and that it hurts you that he has those thoughts about you, your toddler, and about not understanding why you're not in a sexy mood these days. Because hello! Your hormones are acting up! I'm sorry but I think your husband is behaving very selfishly. And the god-sister? I would confront her and tell her to back off. It's one thing to be a friend, but she better not go beyond that. That's just downright wrong. Do you have a mom, sibling or best friend you can stay with in case things go south with your husband? Remember: think about what's best for you and your children. You need love and support, and the courage to get through this. Tight hugs to you, mama.
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