Crazy mid age stranger pissed me off

This is a ranting post, I have no idea where to rant i hope mummies can bear with me. I was in a library minding my own business and was reading a book. An auntie sitting beside me was sleeping and i did not make any noise to disturb her. She woke up few mins ltr and started listening to music and watching shows on her phone without earpiece. (Ok nvm) 5mins later she suddenly talking to herself in Mandarin "don't you think you are selfish, u r pregnant and yet you still come out make everyone your slave" HUH? And she added "hope you have a difficult delivery and die on the bed, just go and die" she kept repeating this. I thought she was angry with the actress in the show she was watching. I took off my earpiece and listen properly again. Wtf she was legit referring to me! She is definitely crazy and unsound. She keep telling me that I'm selfish, make everyone in the library my slaves and i should die on the bed by difficulty in delivering my baby. I am very pantang to this kind of cursing esp now im about to give birth soon. Yet i have no idea how should i confront her. Her curse is hindering me alot, what if something rly happen to me at the time of deliver? #firsttimemom #advicepls #firsttimemom #pleasehelp

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I have a similar experience before. I have eczema and I’m used to strangers coming up to me to offer advice. These days I will just turn them down. I was just waiting for the mrt at Bugis station with my earphones and this lady looked at me up and down and came to me “can I tell you something?” I just said “No” because I know what’s to come. I put back my earphones hoping she get the hint and leave. She then tries again, saying something about my skin and how she has a remedy that can help. I politely say “no thank you. I’ve tried everything and anything and I’m currently ok with my skin and scars. So no thank u”. She flew into a rage and started cursing me loudly like “不得好死” that kind of curse. She went on for so long I felt really uncomfortable so I left the station, went up the escalator to seek help from the station master. They were really nice. They came down to the platform with me and we couldn’t find the lady anymore. They waited till I board the train. I understand it does affects u mentally cos I’m pantang that way. Depending on ur religion I suggest maybe u can go pray for a peace of mind? Otherwise just think positive thoughts - like how poor thing she is to be mentally ill and has no help. Or u can perhaps go make a donation or something to accumulate some good karma to counter this. Just to make yourself feel better.

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