how to trust your partner again

no physical betrayal (but not very sure as his expression could be so believing that u almost believe until u found out the action speaks otherwise). hubby admitted to he got personal issue which despite knowing the deadly consequences (marriage breakdown w big quarrels) n promises he had given during past discoveries of him looking at porn n contacting those hookers online, he still unable to erase All hookers contacts till now. i want a immediate divorce n got him agree n sign letter of it when 2nd time found out the betrayal. within a week n two, he did it again n even tried changing the names on his mobile. he said he couldnt help it n know he got issues n seeking help. we hv a baby girl. how can i ever trust him again when he couldnt even help himself despite knowing the consequences n claiming how he loves me so deep n the family n want to keep it tog?

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i understand how you feel. i was in that shoes before. my husband will talk to women. getting another phone and changed his name. even go out drink drunk vomitted. now he has affair with his own colleague. keep saying he love me. to be frank. i dont trust him. my husband even abused me. he left the house and stay with that women and never come home. its been a year plus. i hv decided that to end this marriage because there is no meaning. moreover, he has lied and i hv trust to forgive him. but then a leopard spots will never changed. i let it go. my divource will be anytime. i f*** care him. do wat ever he wants.

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