Parents with 2 or more toddler kids, how do you discourage jealousy among your children?

Sibling jealousy is completely normal, but parents can add fuel to the fire by using improper language or discipline. When you’re constantly admonishing your son to be “more like your sister,” you’re hardly fostering a spirit of sibling love. Instead, you’re telling your child that even you compare them, and that one of them is “winning.” When dealing with siblings, highlight each child’s strengths and stop negative self-talk as soon as you hear it. Also, do your best to provide equal attention to your children. If one child takes up a lot of time for baseball games, schedule the same amount of time for another child’s interests – even if that means reading a book together or seeing an art exhibit as a family, rather than attending a game or match. Remember, it’s your responsibility to celebrate your kids’ differences. Acknowledge each child’s unique attributes to avoid making it seem like you play favorites. Some parents struggle when one child has a personality much different from their own. If this sounds like you, challenge yourself to learn more about that child and to find something you can enjoy together – chances are he or she has a lot to teach you.