Parents with 2 or more toddler kids, how do you discourage jealousy among your children?

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I have "Special time" with each kid once a week so all the attention is on them. I also try not to compare them and when I buy things I buy them one each so they don't fight over that one thing

Treat each child as an individual rather than as equals, avoid comparisons between children and spending special time alone with the jealous child without other household members.

spend time with each child individually. make them feel special. and dont say things like "your brother is much better than you..." etc

we just tell to our daughter that she dont need to get jealous because we love them both and we are just taking good care of our baby.

im glad my elder is not jealous of her siblings but i do spent time with her while her lil brother is asleep

If buy things i will buy my 3s, at least I wouldn't hear grumbling.

Treat them equally. Always tell them to share toys.