Para sa'yo, okay lang ba ang live-in muna bago ang kasal?

Para sakin kasal muna before magsama sa iisang bahay. There’s a big difference legality wise. As the wife, you assume a role that no one can take over because ikaw lang ang acknowledged ng batas para maging asawa. It not only protects you but also serves as your security. I understand na kapag live in, you can get out of the relationship as quickly as you can kung di na kayo magkasundo, but why would you even think of moving in together if you have that idea in mind na maghihiwalay din kayo. With marriage, you get to really co exist, learn and grow together, it is a lifetime commitment. Sa live in set up kasi you get to have that mindset na okay lang if you don’t get treated well, because pwede ka umalis anytime. It’s not aligned with my vision and values kaya hindi ko gusto na live in muna. I want to have as much rights as I can have and I want to be the wife the society sees and the law respects. You don’t need to have a perfect marriage, kasi we all know it does not exist. We are all flawed. Kaya nga before you get married, kailangan mo ding pag isipan at kilalanin mabuti ang mapapang asawa mo. It’s a responsibility. If it fails, then I’ll accept it, and move on. Same as with everyone who goes through trials and failures. Point ko lang if the only reason ayaw magpakasal ay dahil sa chances of hiwalayan lang, everyone goes through heartbreak, hindi naman exempted kung hindi ka kasal. Parehas lang din masakit. Mas mahal yes but if you’re the aggrieved party, you can get alimony at least. With the help of the law, the wife can fight and claim for what is rightfully hers. That’s all I’m saying.