Desitin works very well for my lo and has been recommended by our PD. Also, you might want to try these:
1) Choose baby wipes that are water based. Some baby wipes contain chemicals that are harsh for your lo's skin. Better yet, you can clean your lo's bum in the sink under running water. Then pat dry and make sure its dry before you put the diaper on. If you're not comfortable cleaning her bum in the sink, try to clean with wet cotton balls.
2) Try a different brand of nappies.
3) Change diaper more often.
Hope this helps :-)
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