Mums, just curious to know - was your husband/partner a help or hinderance during the first few weeks after giving birth?

No help. He didn't stay at the hospital with me after my c section. He hasnt got up once at night to help feed or change the baby even if hes already awake (hes almost 2 months now) and he still expects me to maintain a perfect clean house with food on the table WHILE I work a job. He didn't even baby sit. I got a man but I'm raising my son on my own. Most of yall are so lucky u got a man to help you I'm sure urs will do better than mine