Mummy who didn't put lo in infant care .. Do you think your child will be slower than others who had put in infant care.? do you think I should enrol my lo at 18 months or 3 years old ?

I think it really depends. If you have a reliable caregiver at home & provide plenty of opportunities for your child to socialise & learn it is ok to start school at 3years old. A baby who goes or do not goes to infant care has not much learning & development difference if you put in the effort & spend time with your baby & help him achieve his growing milestones.