Mummy who didn't put lo in infant care .. Do you think your child will be slower than others who had put in infant care.? do you think I should enrol my lo at 18 months or 3 years old ?

Usually 2nd child is faster. I feel fast or slow depends not on ifc or not but exposure. Ifc usually faster because they have peer influence as well as activities planned for them. Like reading time/ gross motor time/ fine motor time/ art/ music ... etc .... If u are SAHM, u can provide the same activities for your babies too n organise more play dates so that the babies can learn from one another. I'm sending my boy to cc at 18 Mths even though I'm a SAHM because I feel they can learn more than as compared to short hours playgroups n I dun have to plan activities for him then(haha) n free up more of my time