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Super Mum

Hugs. I cannot believe your husband can say such utter nonsense! I wouldn’t be able to stop myself from scolding him immediately so this is praise for your patience! My boy is also very active and won’t sit still. Now they love exploring and testing limits so should encourage within reason to let them explore. My boy also won’t always sit in the car seat. Instead he will scream for papa to carry him even though we explain that papa is driving. I hv to try many tricks to get him to sit or just get into the car. Sometimes I let him stand at the back and hold his waist to make sure he doesn’t fall. Papa hv to drive slower n more careful then. When he has had enough he will ask to sit his car seat. I also tried bribing with biscuits or juice. Eat / drink must be in the seat 😅 We also sometimes use YouTube or Spotify to calm him down. last resort I just grab and wrestle him until he calm down… then cuddle him a bit. Tell your husband, parenting is also HIS job!!! 😡 Pick a time where you both are calm and raise this as a serious issue to him. Non negotiable must change behaviour and idea. Jiayou!!!

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omg that tells a lot about your husband's upbringing. is that not his own son?? he has the same responsibility to teach the kid too! how old fashioned of his thinking that he just needs to earn money and leave everything else to the wife. i seriously hope your boy will turn out a better person and not take the father as his role model. jiayou!! if i were you, i would have covered my boy's ears and scold the husband every single time he sprouts nonsense. dont give him any face since he is such a lousy husband & father.

Oh dear. Pity your husband. Cause it seems like his brain wasnt developed well during birth. You are not a failure mother nor a useless mother. Please tell your husband that not every information on google is reliable! Please tell him to use his not fully functioning brain and try not to be a useless father and help out. Hope all goes well for you. Sending my love your way 🤍

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Woah I will tell him to stfu and slap him! This kind of husband can just go and die. No offence and not sorry at all. If my husband dare to say that to me he confirm kenna slap lmao. All he does is move that useless mouth of his? Tell him raising a child takes 2 hands to clap. So sorry that you have to go through this!

HAHAHA! Well said!!

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