Hi mummies, we hired a maid to help out on household and baby. I don't know about you.. but for me somehow I feel unsecured for helper to take care of my baby, like will my baby go to my helper instead of me when she grow up? Because sometimes she will be the one to feed/change diapers/bath/play. I tried to spend more time with baby because I am so afraid that baby will choose helper instead of me next time. Is this normal? How do you mummies deal with this? #firstbaby #1stimemom #advicepls