Not excited about 2nd pregnancy

Hi mummies. My firstborn is currently 13mo and I found out that I'm pregnant with my 2nd. It's not a surprise because we did plan for it. However after finding out that I'm pregnant, I don't feel excited at all. In fact I'm a little sad. Sad that my time with my firstborn is limited. Now I feel like I'm knowingly taking away time and attention from her. I'm scared too. How would I be able to handle 2 kids under 2? Is this normal? My husband simply just brushed it aside and told me not to think too much.

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Congratulations! I want so much for a #2. Although the time alone with #1 is limited, but when #2 is born, the siblings bond is sooo beautiful! And I have friends that delay #2, end up keep trying also don’t have. Jiayou