Not excited about 2nd pregnancy

Hi mummies. My firstborn is currently 13mo and I found out that I'm pregnant with my 2nd. It's not a surprise because we did plan for it. However after finding out that I'm pregnant, I don't feel excited at all. In fact I'm a little sad. Sad that my time with my firstborn is limited. Now I feel like I'm knowingly taking away time and attention from her. I'm scared too. How would I be able to handle 2 kids under 2? Is this normal? My husband simply just brushed it aside and told me not to think too much.

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Hi..firstly congrats on ur 2nd pregnancy...dont worry too much..i know how it feels having another baby after 1 year gap with the 1st born..dont feel that the 1st born hasn't get enough love n care from u..they will grow up together as a best friend cause their gap is 1year gap..look at the bright side..its like u are raising 2 children at one time..its like u growing a twins..my sis is the same like u, 1 year gap children...she can make it, u too can make it 👍 its a blessing that u are having another child soon..dont be stress and think too much it may affect ur pregnancy journey..some people out there are trying their best to conceive..stay positive 🤗 A healthy mummy, is a healthy baby ❤️ take gd care and stay safe 😉

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