Any mommies here with 2 or 3 boys ? I have 2 boys n I don't intend to have a 3rd child but I'm so sick with those insensitive comments like "huh? No girls ah? Try for 3rd one lah , maybe will get a girl?".. "Wah seh! 2boys ! Must be tough for u !".. "girls are more fillial, should try for a girl." ... " girls are easier to manage than boys .." .. "huh? No girls to go shopping or high tea with next time ." Blah blah blah .. I admit that when I was conceiving my #2, I did hope for a girl but after having my second boy , I find him v cute n like it too n feel that it is okie not to have a girl but I often get such insensitive n irritating comments that I feel v irritated ! Yes, I can choose to ignore but hearing it day after day is really making me frustrated !

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HELLO! I have two boys. and currently pregnant with 3rd boy. People always asked wah. trying for girl ah? i will just smile becos i didn't purposely try for a girl (after all u cannot choose!) I will just answer them nicely, ok i'm blessed with boys to protect me! yes girls are more fillal. But i would have to worry more once they get older, their safety, their modesty and so once I will enjoy my own Me and shopping time when my boys gets older! they can stay home with daddy to nua while i shop till i drop! look on the bright side!

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