Any mommies here with 2 or 3 boys ? I have 2 boys n I don't intend to have a 3rd child but I'm so sick with those insensitive comments like "huh? No girls ah? Try for 3rd one lah , maybe will get a girl?".. "Wah seh! 2boys ! Must be tough for u !".. "girls are more fillial, should try for a girl." ... " girls are easier to manage than boys .." .. "huh? No girls to go shopping or high tea with next time ." Blah blah blah .. I admit that when I was conceiving my #2, I did hope for a girl but after having my second boy , I find him v cute n like it too n feel that it is okie not to have a girl but I often get such insensitive n irritating comments that I feel v irritated ! Yes, I can choose to ignore but hearing it day after day is really making me frustrated !

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i do understand how you feel. people are just being kaypoh i should try for 2nd child & gave 1001 reasons! especially my mum who prefers girls is always comparing!

TapFluencer

yes 2... i usually make those comments about myself first & ahh no way I am having a 3rd ! so the others have no chance to even start commenting 😅

Super Mum

It always like that.. Likewise when you have 2girls... People will ask if you are trying for a boy.

Rubbish. I have 5 boys and yet people still ask to try for a girl. are they crash of what? lol

Stop hanging out with those people who pass insensitive comments.

Ignore them

Home Just Mums mommies with 2 3 boys i have 2 boys n i dont intend have 3rd child but im sick with those insensitive comments like huh girls ah try 3rd lah maybe get girl wah seh 2boys must tough girls more fillial should try girl girls easier manage than boys huh girls go shopping high tea with next time blah blah blah i admit that when i was conceiving 2 i did hope girl but after having second boy i find him v cute n like too n fee