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The best parenting advice I heard is "Be Present!". As parents, we know kung gaano kahirap i-juggle oras natin sa lahat Ng responsibilities natin, mapa work man yan o gawaing bahay. Ni Oras nga natin sa Sarili natin, kulang na ehh, what more pa kaya sa oras na maibibigay natin sa ating kiddos. As a first time mom and also a "bread-winner" nahihirapan ako balansehin oras ko. But I make sure talaga na lagi kong nabibigyan ng oras at panahon ang baby ko. Every second I have, sasabihin ko kung gaano ko Siya ka love. Every minute I have, ipaparamdam ko Ang higpit Ng aking mga yakap. Every hour I have, I'll make sure that I am on her side, listening to her stories, playing along with her, helping her in her homework. Basta sa lahat ng nakaw na sandali, di ko pinapalipas na ipaalala sa kanya na "Mahal ko Siya", "Masaya ako kasi Ikaw Ang pinaka magandang blessing na binigay ni Lord", "Mama is so proud of you", "Mama is here to support you". Gaano man kahirap Ang tinatawid nating landas mga Inay/Itay. Kahit gaano man kabigat Ang ating pinapasan. Huwag natin kalimutan na yakapin at Sabihin sa kanila na "mahal natin Sila". Maglaan Tayo Ng kahit minuto na mapakinggan kung kamusta Ang Araw nila o tanungin kung ano Ang nararamdaman nila. Their feelings matter most. Para kanina pa Tayo bumabangon, ehh para lang sa kanila. Mahalaga ang Pera sa pagbubuo Ng masayang pamilya, pero mas mahalaga ang sandali ng ating buhay kasama sila.
Hi, I'm Cronica, and I have a three-month-old daughter named chelseah. While I feel like at this point I've been doing this whole parenting thing for a while, I'm still a relatively new mom. Since telling people that I was pregnant, I've received endless advice on how to raise a child. If you're a parent, I'm sure you can relate! Much of the advice I've gotten has been straight-up annoying or total garbage. But I've also received some words of wisdom that have really spoken to me and helped me become a better mom. So here is some of the best advice I've come across so far in the first almost-year of parenthood. Every baby and mother is different, so don't compare your baby (or yourself!) to others. This is all to say that every baby and every parent is different, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting. It may seem obvious, but it's always helpful to recall this insight. No, you're not a bad parent if you let your baby take all his naps in the carrier instead of the crib if that helps your baby sleep. You're doing amazing even if you are still feeding your baby to sleep and decide sleep training isn't for you! I love talking with others about my parenting decisions and the things that are working for me and seah, but I felt more confident and happier once I stopped comparing.
Parenting is a unique and challenging journey, and there is no single "best" advice. However, a key principle is to be present and engaged with your child, fostering a strong emotional connection. Show unconditional love, set clear boundaries, and be a positive role model. Encourage independence and communication, while being patient and understanding of their individual development. Celebrate their successes, and remember that seeking support from others is a sign of strength, not weakness. Ultimately, the most important thing is to create a loving and nurturing environment where your child can thrive.
cguro un best parenting guide or advise na masasabo ko is matuto din taung makinig sa ating mga anak kung ano un gusto o ayaw nla kc syempre may sarili dn silang katawan at pagiisip bigyan dn ntn cla ng karapatan na masabi ang mga saloobin nla na di cla nagmumukhang sumasagot o nagmamaldita , kindly make them express their opinions or ideas baka may maganda nmn cla masasabi na makakatulong dn pareho sa relasyon ninyo , give and take ba pra mas maganda ang communication and relationship ntn sa ating mga anak
"Your Child, Your Rules" Pwede sila mag suggest ng mga dapat gawin pero ang masusunod in the end is kayo as a parent. They can't dictate you of what is right or wrong. Doing the best that you can is the best thing you can do to your child/children. No one can underestimate your capabilities to be a mom!!!! Always remember, protect your family at all cost. Mabuhay ang lahat ng mga ina/nanay/mama/mommy/furparent/mom at heart sa buong mundo!
"Be involved and spend time in your child's life " Being an attentive parent requires a lot of time and effort since it frequently requires rethinking and shifting your priorities. It often means putting your child's needs ahead of your own desires. Be there both physically and emotionally.
I am a single parent of a six year old. My parents always taught us to be respectful, pray and be kind. I am trying my best to teach the same thing to my child especially na mas madami na syang nakakasalamuha na tao.
Listen.. Most of us are quick to respond or react. But like an adult, kids want the assurance that people around them hear them well. So listen..
naaalala nila kung sino kasama nila kaysa sa sakripisyo mo para sa kanila. be present
theAsianparent PH Mom