I feel like Im not good enough in our marriage. I feel self pity/ insecurity.

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Hi mommies. This is specifically a discussion about husband and wife relationship after having a child. Lately, nafifeel ko I am not good enough. Nakikita ko na losyang ako. Tumaba ako nga halos 8 kilos. Dumami pimples. I have dark underarms even after giving birth.I feel like lumayo yung loob ng asawa ko. He lost interest. When we are making love parang wala syang gana. Though he is telling me otherwise. Hindi daw, guni guni ko lang daw. Pero skin sa sarili ko alam ko. Wala ng effort. Unlike before. I would like to check if any of you is having the same experience I am having now? Or if any have had it before? Yung asawa ko alam ko na gusto nya ayusin kaso diba mga mi action speaks louder than words. Mararamdaman naman natin un di ba? I am trying to be better. Dieting, trying to cure pimples. But I cannot rush the process since I have a toddler and I am a working mom as well. Any advise? Or if you could share your story, it would be a great help.  Please respect my post.#help #adviceplease

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hi mommy, sometimes we go to a phase wherein we don't feel like ourselves and we sometimes forget to take care of ourselves. Mahirap talaga. It took me mga ilang months bago bumalik yung sigla and pag seself care. Hormonal changes din mommy. Mag lalighten din yung sa underarms One step at a time. Don't overthink too much.

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Jonalyn Bawisan · Answer

bilang nanay dumadating den sa part na ganyan tayo mag isip,.. peru mhie baka insecurities lang ya. at no matter what if love ka talaga ni mister tumaba ka man pumayat ka man mag ka pimples ka man . bastat toong mahal ka ..ikaw at ikaw lang ang maganda sa kanya mhiee.. at syempre kahit nanay na tayo give time pa den sa SARILI naten

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I feel like I'm not good enough in our marriage. I feel self pity/ insecurity.