I’m not excited. Is this normal?

Hi, mommies. First-time mom ako. I feel like a bad mom for not even feeling excited or happy that I’m expecting. Parang, come what may na lang nafefeel ko. Kung makunan, edi makunan (but please don’t get me wrong, I’m not trying to naman and certainly not wishing). Kung hindi, edi the baby’s here. Ewan ko, ang hirap. Now I’m also scared na baka pagkalabas niya, hindi ko siya kayang mahalin. Is it just me? Is this just a phase? Will I get over it eventually? #firsttimemom #plshelp #pregnancy #sharing #adviceappreciated #firstmom

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I'm a second mom here I love my 3yrs old daughter . Nung na laman KO na buntis ako , parang masaya na malungkot kasi Paano anak ko d na kami makakabonding kasi may newborn ako this coming June and minsan na stress ako sa bahay pero nag sisi si ako kapag sinasabhan q asawa KO na bahala na kung ano gusto NITONG anak ko kung ok ba sakanya or.hindi na ( parang malalaglagan) pero I always pray to God na sana OK cya walang sakit everything ... To you mommy please pray sauna kasi malulungkot ka pero pag nakita mona anak MO Masaya yan

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Anonymous

10mo ago

Yes po, every time I felt this, nag-pe-pray talaga ako. Alam ko namang may plan si God for us kaya I take comfort in that fact. Nasasad lang talaga ako minsan, lalo na nung first weeks. Career person din kasi ako kaya naninibago ako pina-stay at home ako ng partner ko & families namin para matutukan si baby & maselan kasi pagbubuntis ko. Baka hormonal imbalance rin kaka-overthink!😅 anws thank you po for sharing! I’m assured na once I feel baby & lumabas na sya, magiging ok din ako. ☺️💖

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