Nahuling nagjajakol ang asawa: what to do?

Many wives po including ako consider pornography to be insulting, degrading, and a form of cheating, maraming asawa na they don't understand their wives' anger, like as you said, nahuling nagjajakol, about the use of porn or how it makes them unfaithful.  For me, First, talk to him about it. Second, don't be condemning ; be compassionate. Third, become part of the solution. And, always remember to forgive him. You're a team!